3 Ways to Avoid Overwhelm During the Holidays
There are lots of things I love about celebrating a holiday; for one, it brings people together.
But if you’re an introvert (like me), busy social occasions can come with their challenges, too. Spending so much time socialising, without any time to rest and recharge, can tire you out.
As much as I enjoy spending time with the people I love, I often emerge from these occasions needing a holiday to follow my holiday.
So how can you avoid overwhelm and enjoy the holidays fully? Here are 3 ways.
1. Think of Your Future Self
Every year, my husband and I travel back to Cape Town to visit our family and friends, usually over Christmas.
I really miss our loved ones back home, so it feels natural to accept every social invitation offered and to make sure I’ve spent as much time with everyone as possible.
But sometimes, when I’m saying yes to the third social event in a day, I have a quiet sense that I’m setting myself up for exhaustion.
It’s fine, I find myself saying, in response to this inner wisdom. I’ll manage...
But past experience has shown me that overbooking myself is something I’ll later regret.
When I rush from one social event to the next, it’s hard to be fully present for any single one of them. It’s just not possible to show up as my best, happiest self when I’m spread thin.
The truth is, it’s easier for our present self to say yes. Maybe we feel bad saying no, or there’s pressure from others, or we simply want to do more than is realistic.
But since your future self is the one who has to fulfill whatever commitments your present self sets up, it’s your future self you need to be thinking of.
What would the future you want? What will set up your future self for the happiest, most stress-free holiday possible?
Is there anything your future self would be grateful you said no to?
2. Schedule Time for Self-Care
Part of my over-scheduling habits came from prioritising only things that required energy, without foreseeing that I’d need to replenish those resources.